At the Cross, My Old Self Died—In Christ, My New Life Begins

Cross beside a calm mountain lake with mountains reflected at sunset

Devotional Thoughts for Christians***

“We know that our old self was crucified with him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.” (Romans 6:6 – ESV)

Beloved, pause for a moment and behold the glorious truth hidden in these words: Your old self was crucified with Christ!

Not will be crucified. Not is being crucified. But WAS crucified!

When Jesus hung upon that cross at Calvary, God included you in His death. The old self—that fallen, self-centered life that seeks to live independently of God—was brought to the cross with Him.

The cross is not a possibility to pursue; it is a divine fact to believe.

We do not die with Christ little by little through our own striving. We cannot accomplish this death through prayer, self-discipline, or religious effort. God has already accomplished what we could never achieve.

When Christ died, our old self died with Him. His death was once for all, and our union with Him is a finished reality.

How often do we pray, “Lord, crucify my old self! Lord, help me die to myself!” Yet Scripture invites us to see something far more wonderful: God has already included our old self in the death of His Son.

We don’t need to ask God to accomplish what He has already accomplished. We need our spiritual eyes opened to behold it, our hearts awakened to believe it, and our lips moved to praise Him for it!

But why is seeing this truth so important?

Because as long as we depend on our natural, self-directed life, we remain trapped in the exhausting struggle of trying to please God through human strength.

The flesh cannot produce the righteousness God desires. As Romans 7:18 declares, “For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh.” (ESV)

Our natural abilities, determination, religious zeal, and even our best intentions cannot become the source of true spiritual life.

God does not intend to improve the old self so that it can please Him. He has judged the old self at the cross so that we may live through Christ.

What a glorious deliverance!

The very self that struggles, fails, boasts, fears, and insists upon its own way has already been brought under the judgment of the cross.

This does not mean that temptation disappears or that we never struggle again. Rather, sin no longer has the rightful mastery it once held over us. We are now free to yield ourselves to God and walk by His Spirit.

Faith does not create Christ’s finished work. Faith simply receives what God has already accomplished.

We are not struggling toward crucifixion; we are standing upon its accomplished reality.
We are not trying to manufacture a holy life out of our old nature; we are learning to live by the life of the risen Christ within us.

So when the old self seeks to rise again—demanding its own way, defending its pride, or trusting its own strength—remember what God has declared:

“That old self you are struggling to overcome has already been crucified with Christ!”

Do not make the old self your source of strength. Do not allow its failures to define your identity. Look away from yourself and behold the Savior who has delivered you.

For the secret of a victorious Christian life is not found in trying harder to make the old self holy, but in reckoning ourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.

At Calvary, our old life met its judgment. In the risen Christ, our new life begins.

And now, we may live—not by the strength of self, but by the grace, power, and indwelling life of Jesus Christ.

Pause to Reflect:

Have I been striving to crucify an old self that God declares was already crucified with Christ?
Am I still relying on my natural strength to please God, instead of trusting Christ’s life within me?
Today, ask the Holy Spirit to open your eyes to the finished work of the cross. Let this truth move from mere knowledge into living faith.
I was crucified with Christ. My old self no longer has the final word. Christ is my life now!

Parting Thought:

The cross is not where we struggle to die; it is where God declares that our old self has already died with Christ.
Stop striving to accomplish what Jesus has already finished. Believe what God has declared, reckon it true, and walk in the freedom of His risen life.
Our freedom begins not when we finally overcome ourselves, but when we see that God has already dealt with our old self through the cross of His Son.
The old self was crucified. The power of sin was broken. And now, Christ Himself is our life!

Prayer:

Father God, thank You for the glorious and finished work of Your Son, Jesus Christ. Thank You that when He died upon the cross, my old self was crucified with Him. What I could never accomplish through my own effort, You have already accomplished through Your grace.
Lord, forgive me for the many times I have depended upon my own strength, determination, and natural abilities to live a life pleasing to You. Open my spiritual eyes to see that my old self has already been judged at Calvary. Teach me to stop striving in the flesh and to rest in the truth of Your Word.
Holy Spirit, make this revelation living and real in my heart. Teach me to reckon myself dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus. May I no longer live under the dominion of the old self, but walk daily in the freedom, holiness, and power of Christ’s resurrection life.
Not my strength, not my striving, not my old self—but Christ living in me!
In the precious and victorious name of Jesus, Amen.

Response

  1. Retro_DivaVeAnn Avatar

    Today’s devotion really touches my heart as a daughter of God, wife, mother, healthcare professional and one who tries to serve others with love. It is a reminder that sometimes my greatest struggle is not a lack of faith but my tendency to carry everything on my own shoulders, forgetting I was never meant to walk this journey through my own strength alone. I have always tried to be strong for those I love, to smile when I am tired, to comfort others when my own heart is weary, to keep giving when I have very little left for myself.

    As a healthcare professional, I want to help, solve problems, ease suffering and make things better.

    As a mother I want to protect and guide my children.

    As a wife I want to love my marriage with love, patience and understanding.

    And as a Christian embracing the Catholic faith, I really want to live a life that reflects the love of Christ. But in trying so hard to meet those responsibilities, I sometimes forget that I am God’s child, too, and need to be held and comforted and strengthened by him. There are times when I get angry with my flaws, my impatience, my emotions, my need to control everything. There are times when I feel that I have to work harder to be a better person, a more loving wife, a more patient mother, a more compassionate healthcare professional and a more faithful servant of God. But today’s reflection reminds me that holiness is not about trying harder or proving myself worthy. I have already been joined to Christ in His death and resurrection by my baptism. This is not to say that I will not stumble, lose patience, become discouraged, or make mistakes. I’m still human, still learning, and very much a work in progress. But it means that my failures no longer get to determine who I am. When I fall, I can return to Jesus through repentance, prayer, and His infinite mercy.

    **Yesterday’s mistakes do not define me, but God’s grace that is still transforming me today.** And I know I’ve become so accustomed to being the strong one that sometimes it’s hard for me to just turn my burdens completely over to God. I may seem happy, lively, spirited and sometimes a little naughty 🤭 but behind my smile are worries, responsibilities, silent struggles and moments of exhaustion that only God truly understands. Sometimes I put too much pressure on myself to make everything right, to make everyone happy, to make sure no one feels left out or let down. But Jesus gently reminds me that I don’t need to earn my worth by what I accomplish, how many people I help, or how much pain I can take. He loved me before I did anything, and He loves me still when I feel like nothing. I am valuable not because of my productivity, my perfection, or the recognition I receive, but because I am His beloved daughter. Maybe one of the biggest lessons God is teaching me is that surrender is NOT weakness. It’s an act of belief. I can serve faithfully without taking every burden on myself as if everything depended on me. I can love deeply, without trying to control every outcome. I can give generously and also admit that I need rest, healing and grace. “True strength is not found in pretending I can do everything, but in letting Christ work through my weaknesses and knowing His grace is enough when I am weak.” I am a lector and love my Catholic faith, and I have heard about the cross countless times. I have prayed before it, meditated on the Passion of Christ, and preached his word. But today’s devotion challenges me to ask if the truth of the cross has moved beyond my knowing and into the way I live each day. When someone tries my patience, do I respond with Christ-like gentleness? Can I serve with love and not resentment when my efforts are unseen or unappreciated? When my family duties start to weigh me down, can I release my worries instead of letting fear fill my heart? And when I feel that I am not doing enough, can I remember that God never asked me to be perfect by my own efforts, but to remain faithful and open to His transforming grace? I think the Holy Spirit is calling me to go deeper in my faith, not just through prayers and words, but through the little choices I make every day. To forgive when it hurts. To love without always needing appreciation. To serve without needing recognition. To rest without guilt. To trust God even when His plans are different than mine. The cross is not just a symbol I wear or carry or venerate. It is the love I am called to live. And perhaps here’s the real beauty of today’s message. When I say, *“I have been crucified with Christ,”* I am reminded that the last word in my life is not my past mistakes, my fears, my disappointments, my insecurities, my exhaustion or even my struggles. **Jesus Christ has the final say.** I may still worry too much and laugh too loud and be impatient sometimes and lovingly annoy my husband 🤭❤️, but underneath all these human imperfections, there is a heart that really wants to belong to God. I do not have to stop being the spirited, passionate, affectionate, and sometimes playful woman He made me to be. I want Him to cleanse my intentions, soften my heart, direct my actions, and teach me to love with more humility, patience, and compassion. I want my husband and children to know Christ through the love I give them, my patients to know him through the compassion and dignity with which I care for them, and my colleagues to know him through the kindness, encouragement and understanding I extend to them. I want the joy of Christ to shine through me, in my dancing, my laughter, my friendships, the ordinary moments of everyday life. Not because I am perfect but because Christ lives in me. Today I ask the Holy Spirit to open my spiritual eyes to the finished work of the cross so that this truth will no longer be something I understand intellectually, but rather something I embrace wholeheartedly and live faithfully. I want to stop fighting battles Christ has already won. I want to stop letting my old fears, habits, and insecurities dictate how I see myself. I am aware that to follow Christ still demands a daily conversion, a denial of oneself, repentance, perseverance. But I don’t have to enter these struggles as one abandoned to fight alone. Through His grace I can work with the Holy Spirit and let Him change me, one day at a time. And when I fall, I will rise again, not because I am strong enough on my own, but because His mercy is greater than my weakness.✝️🙏

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    I will be honest, I get caught up sometimes with the responsibilities of life as a wife, mother, healthcare professional…